The Comprehensive Guide to Social-Emotional Learning (SEL)

Introduction to Social-Emotional Learning

You might be asking, “What is social-emotional learning?” or “Why should I be integrating it to my classroom’s curriculum?”

Introduction to Social-Emotional Learning

You might be asking, “What is social-emotional learning?” or “Why should I be integrating it to my classroom’s curriculum?” You’ve landed on the right page. 

Social-emotional learning teaches competencies that help students develop the skills needed to overcome social and emotional challenges. Those challenges will continue after graduation, so teaching these skills in elementary and middle school gives students a fighting chance to succeed in school and life.

Friendzy’s social-emotional learning program focuses on building healthy school climates that enable students to unlock their greatest potential. When you partner with us, you recieve everything you need to make a lasting change in your classroom, including professional development that allows you to grow alongside your students. 

In this hub, you'll find everything you need to know about social and emotional learning, from core competencies to social and emotional learning benefits, resources, and studies. Start making a difference in your student's lives, and use SEL in your classroom today!


Core Competencies of Social-Emotional Learning

Social and emotional learning explores five core competencies that work synergistically to help students improve their well-being. Here is a brief overview of the core competencies of social and emotional learning.

  • Self-Awareness — Recognizing one's emotions, values, strengths, and limitations. 

  • Self-Management — Managing behaviors in order to set goals and achieve desired outcomes. 

  • Responsible Decision-Making — Using social cues and personal understanding to make constructive choices to the benefit of everyone. 

  • Social-Awareness — Showing deep understanding and empathy for others in a variety of situations. 

  • Relationships Skills — Forming healthy relationships, strong partnerships, working in teams, and overcoming conflict effectively. 

When students learn these competencies, they know how to interact respectfully with others. Friendzy's SEL program focuses on teaching these skills practically, creating a relationally centered classroom.


Benefits of SEL

According to the Department of Education, learning environments that focus on teaching social-emotional skills are more likely to see life-long benefits. Those benefits include things like:

  • Increased self-awareness, self-control, and self-management

  • Improved academic performance and achievement

  • Positive behavior inside and outside of the classroom

  • More healthy relationships with adults and peers

  • Improved decision-making and problem-solving skills


Did you know that social-emotional learning isn't new? Families, communities, and schools have been teaching these essential skills for a long time! We're simply optimizing the approach to social-emotional learning by using precise language, data, and engaging activities to nurture social-emotional growth.

For most parents, the ultimate goal is to instill kindness and decency in their children, which is precisely what SEL attempts to do!

Equipping children with the necessary skills to blossom into compassionate and well-rounded adults offers students a strong foundation for future success.


Implementing SEL in Schools

SEL instruction is vital to every child's development, from elementary school to adulthood. Check out a few of our favorite Friendzy freebies to help you integrate SEL instruction into your daily classroom rhythms. 

SEL Resources and Tools

While Friendzy has plenty of freebies that allow you to implement SEL practices in your classroom, we have additional resources and tools to benefit learners across your school district. These resources include:

Friendzy supports your journey of implementing social-emotional learning through professional development, age-appropriate tools, and expert support. With these key elements in place you will maximize the retention of the skills learned in these lessons.  


SEL Research and Studies

Critical assessments of the effectiveness of SEL programs continue to find massive benefits for young people. Research shows that social and emotional learning improved everything from mindfulness, mental health, and academic success.

Friendzy’s fast facts page highlights the results of teaching comprehensive social-emotional learning throughout the school year:

  •  4 in 5 teachers want more support to address students’ social and emotional development.

  • 8 in 10 employers say social and emotional skills are the most important yet hardest skills to find. 

  • Supporting social and emotional development produces an average 11% increase in grades and standardized test scores. 

Additionally, the Department of Education noted long-term benefits, like a 9% decrease in conduct problems in the classroom and a 10% decrease in emotional distress, such as depression, anxiety, or self-harm. 


Friendzy’s SEL Program is the Missing Piece Educators Need

Since the pandemic, the need for SEL skills have grown in importance as school climates have struggled to adjust to new social norms. Relationship skills are at an all-time low, and young people struggle to form meaningful partnerships with teachers, which results in poor academic performance. 

Incorporating SEL into your curriculum makes the school day more enjoyable and teaches students crucial abilities that benefit them for life. Let Friendzy help you make a lasting impact on your students with the tools, education, and support you need to make a most significant shift in your school's culture! 

Alison Segura